Since it’s been almost two months since I was last consistently writing, let’s catch up a bit!
- Here is what I’ve been reading lately–I will give you another update next month. I’ve had my head in some really good stuff recently and I can’t wait to share.
- This was one of my most recent popular posts.
- I recently wrote a whole series on marriage: the purpose of marriage, the freedom in living chastly in marriage, how marriage requires a total gift, the importance of fidelity, and the call for life giving love.
- I know you have probably been hearing this from everyone lately, but I was one of the lucky ones who got to see Garth Brooks this year! I went on a road trip with my parents and sisters to see him, and the whole experience was nothing short of awesome. It was kind of a whirlwind because we ended up driving to Lubbock, TX to see him (a six hour drive from NM), which included me flying to NM on Friday, road tripping to TX on Saturday, seeing the concert, staying over night, road tripping back to NM on Sunday, then flying back home to KS later that evening. Though it was a lot to cram into one weekend, everything went easy breezy since I didn’t have my kiddos with me. Now don’t get me wrong…I LOVE my kids…but flying on a plane without them is significantly better than flying with them! Ha. The whole trip was great, and it was the first time in around ten years that my family was together again, just the 6 of us! The concert was more than I could have hoped for. It was SO good. SO good that I am going to see him again next week here in Kansas City with Joe!
- Lent is over and Easter has begun! Hallelujah, He is Risen! Our experience at the Sunday Easter Mass, however, was pretty not-good. Every once and a while the kids just decide to gang up on us and give us an exceptionally hard time at Mass. That Sunday was particularly hard. There was crying and fidgeting, which escalated into screaming and timeouts in the back hallway. It was a mess. BUT we pulled through and had a wonderful rest of the day with family. And lucky for the us we didn’t have to skip after-Church treats due to naughty behavior because…well, Easter!
- Big News: I am going to ITALY in less than two weeks! Yes. I am going on a pilgrimage to Rome–my first ever! The story of how it happened and all it took to decide to go deserves its own post, and I will share that with you soon. I’ll also share a bit about my journey leading up to the trip, and stories from the trip itself, so stay tuned! I can’t believe it is just around the corner. We will primarily be in Rome, so if you have any suggestions on where to go in my spare time, tips for packing, or great places to eat, please let me know!
- I’ve been working a lot on giving my day and schedule over to God, especially as a stay-at-home mom. I started realizing how incredibly overwhelmed I was feeling on a day-to-day basis, and I started to ask myself, Does God really want me to live this way?? I have everything I could possibly want or need, yet I was feeling like I was living day to day with just my head above the water. A few of my friends were talking a lot about the book “A Mother’s Rule of Life,” and the idea of creating a “rule” for your life as a mother. I read it and found it tremendously helpful! I plan on talking about this in depth soon, but wanted to share it with you now in case you have been feeling the same way. Check it out! It’s helped me establish a sense of reason and order behind everything that I do which has calmed a lot of the anxiety I have about my daily “to-do” list and responsibilities as wife, mom, and primary care-taker of our home. I highly recommend the book!
I have to admit that I have been sitting on this little post for a while now. The first post back after a long break is always so hard for me! I get complacent with not putting in the work it takes to write something worth reading, and start to doubt that it’s even what I should be doing with my time. However, I know it’s a lot like my experiences when I stop praying on a daily basis, or even exercising. Getting back after things that are good for me and that I love is hard! I’ve stared at this post so many times wondering if I want to hit publish. It’s not the content in this post, but what I know I want to accomplish after it. I have a lot of big ideas for what I want to do around here at BLR and pushing publish is me stretching out my legs, so to speak. And it hurts! I am putting this out there so I can get this thing going again! (Coincidentally, my husband Joe is exercising downstairs to “Eye of the Tiger,” which is really pumping me up right now! haha)
I know what I have been encountering is what I have spoken about in the past. It’s that darn Resistance again. I just recently finished reading Matthew Kelly’s book, “Resisting Happiness” and it was a great reminder that Resistance is a real thing. It’s a real thing seeking to keep you in your chair, or knock you over the second you get up with hopes of accomplishing something great or worthwhile.
I love this little reminder from the book:
It makes me happy when I pray. It makes me happy when I exercise. It makes me happy when I write. So why stop? Matthew Kelly reminded me how vicious Resistance can be: it strikes directly at those things that make us truly happy in life.
So, I am going to push through and get back after it with this blog of mine!! I’m looking forward to sharing all of my ideas with you!