Linking up with Kelly for the first time in a really long time for 7 Quick Takes Friday!
Advent so far has been wonderful. I think the concerted effort to be more aware of what this season is all about is paying off, because I find myself a bit more at peace during this hectic time of the year than I normally am.
The week of the 5th kick-started the craziness of the season for me and my family. We hosted two parties in one week at our house, and have since celebrated three feast days (Saint Nicholas, Mary’s Immaculate Conception, and the Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe).
I have always wanted to be more mindful of the Feast Days in the Church, and seeing the beautiful and thoughtful things that other Catholic moms put together for their families has always left me feeling a bit #inadequate. Sometimes the pressure to be the “perfect” mom is ridiculous–especially the perfect “Catholic” mom– and I love what Simcha had to say about her family’s celebration of the Immaculate Conception. (“Pant, pant”…just get their butts to Mass.)
The biggest thing I took from her article was that we don’t have to put together these elaborate things for our family for them to get the most out of these special days. We just need to put our focus on what really matters, and we need to continue striving to share the faith with our kids in the best ways we know how.
So we’ve begun doing that and it has been awesome, and really alleviated the silly guilt that comes from being so very un-pinterest worthy most of the time.
This new outlook on building our domestic church came just in time, because in the craziness of hosting people at our house on the 5th, I completely forgot to weave together the narrative of Saint Nick’s legendary stories to Eli and stick carrots and other such things in his stinky little shoes before Saint Nicholas’ Feast Day the next day . I did buy coins and carrots and had a whole thing planned out, but completely forgot in the rush of all things. #Momfail
But I rolled with it. Who really cares? I mean, I may not be Martha-friggin-Stewart, but that’s okay. And let’s be honest, Eli (and certainly Lucia) didn’t even notice.
I decided to nix the whole plan and just work with what we normally do every night, which is sit together as a family and eat dinner. I parked our ol’ Santa Claus “Saint Nick” down with us for dinner,
gave Eli a few details about his life (Lucy nodded along, too), said a quick prayer in honor of him, ate dinner, and afterwards celebrated by eating chocolate coins and drinking eggnog by our tree. It was wonderful and simple and I think Eli got the general jist of what is really so special about the jolly old man, Santa Claus. It’s not so much about getting the presents and toys he brings as it is about the character of the real man (a saint) who existed; a man who lived for the Lord, and loved and gave without reserve.
We also celebrated with our friends this Advent season, on the Feast Day of Our Lady of Guadalupe. The group gathered together and came up with this great idea to make tilmas (an idea one of the girls got from Catholic Icing), eat cookies, watch a movie about Juan Diego’s vision of Mary, and carry red roses up to Mary in honor of this day. It was so fun and I am so glad that my kids are making friends in the Church.
One of the parties I hosted was for Joey’s 30th Birthday! It is becoming kind of a tradition to have a Christmas party at our house for him every year, and I think this 3rd year was our best.
We changed the entertainment up this year (from our usual white elephant game) by playing the seran wrap game, and it was such a hit! Highly suggest it for your family parties—except instead of candy we purchased a bunch of small gifts (chotchkies and stuff) for people to win. Funny enough though, most of the grown men were vying for the big league chew packets of gum.
A friend gifted me the Blessed is She Advent journal this year and I am absolutely loving it! It is probably a bit late to buy the journal for this Advent, but you can also buy it and download a digital copy of it if you are interested!
This year I wanted to make something that I could gift to people, and I settled on these caramel candies. I was super nervous about making these because my history with baking is not the greatest, so I only assumed candy-making would be worse. With only a minor hiccup (a big caramel spill, because my pan wasn’t big enough) I came out unscathed and they came out delicious! Be happy I don’t have pictures of the process, though, because it wasn’t very pretty. The recipe I followed was super easy, albeit a tad time consuming (took me an hour and a half to make). Try making them for Christmas! They don’t disappoint!
Eli had his very first Christmas program yesterday. It was priceless. I especially love how he pretty much “watermelon-coconuted” the whole thing, and clapped for himself at the end. At-a-boy, you little cutie. At-a-boy.
That’s it for me this week! Hope you have a wonderful week, and if you are traveling for Christmas–safe travels!!!